Disclaimer: This entire post is written based purely on the writer's own views. Any reference or similarity seen or made to anyone's life is definitely coincidental.

This is not 2 posts in one day considering the fact that the previous entry was drafted 2 days ago. Anyway, I ought to be doing work right now, but I am just so annoyed with the priest so I am going to make him wait. Hmph!

Just had this thought going through my head. What makes up true love? I am not referring to the TRUE LOVE that is defined by tamil movies or fairytales. I am talking about true love which basically involves 2 people being true to each other. This was triggered by a post I read from somewhere.

Is it true love when they say I LoVe You to each other?
Is it true love when the gal puts her whole trust on the guy and the guy goes around her back shagging other gals?
Is it true love when the guy loves the gal with his whole heart and the gal goes around his back flirting dangerously with other guys?
Is it true love when you go all out and hurt everyone around you for love?

It is funny how some ladies think that it is all fine to sleep or go on intimate dates with random men even when they are apparently attached to Mr. Blablabla. The same goes for some men without being said. I once had this guy friend who told me that he goes and picks up girls from clubs even when he has a very steady girlfriend. Of course, the girlfriend did not know that she had such a moron for a boyfriend. The guy's explanation? He felt that being in a steady relationship did not mean he could not go around getting his sexual desires satisfied by various girls, be it from clubs or some dark alley of Geylang. I wonder how he would have felt if his girlfriend went around sleeping with other guys. I mean, it would hurt right? So why the double standard? Is it just and fair as long as such things happen without the girl's knowledge? Is it a very appropriate behaviour as long as it does not continue after marriage? Is it ok for the guys to 'enjoy life' before settling down permanently?

In my opinion, if you want to 'enjoy life' do not do it at the expense of someone's love. I mean, I am bewildered by the fact that some do it even when they claim that they are in a i-am-so-in-love-I-will-do-anything-for-you-we-will-marry-and-have-kids kind of relationship. Why not just be single and 'enjoy life'? That way you would not be cheating the other person in the relationship. This is the worst kind of betrayal a person can experience, I feel. If you can have the right mind to think that it is perfectly fine to have an ONS with hot sexy looking babe in a club (or as I mentioned, Geylang) then I guess it's not even love anymore. The rest can call it whatever they want to brand it as.

I manage to catch the first episode of the new Tamil drama "Avargal" on Vasantham. I was pretty impressed by it. A typical family with a huge secret. The woman is kept in the dark of her husband's HIV positive status. The husband lies to her shamlessly and discourages her from experiencing the joy of being a mother because he had immoral sex in an unsafe manner. When the wife finds out she is pregnant and that the child could be HIV positive she stabs her husband in a moment of confusion and outrage. I applaud her character. Call me sadistic but I think the guy deserved it for being unfaithful to someone he vowed to love, take care and cherish for the rest of his lifetime. To take the happiness of being a mother from a woman is a sin that can never be cleansed.

I hope to catch the upcoming epsiodes of this drama. It has sparked an interest in me already. You should check it out too..